Getting an Ex Girlfriend Back - Some Tips and Hints

by: Amy Wells

If you are interested in getting an ex girlfriend back there are a few things you should keep in mind and certain actions you should take. Of course, any relationship is unique and there may be circumstances that make getting back together more or less difficult but there are a few things to keep in mind.

You need to come in under her radar if you want to stand a chance of getting back together with your woman. She will be extremely suspicious of everything and every gesture that you make, at least at first. Your ex will worry that you are playing games and that you may just be setting her up to be hurt all over again. You need to show that that is not the case.

If you manage to couple being casual with some of her interests, that can be an excellent way to acknowledge what she finds important and appear to be being nice without ulterior motives. If she loves a band, get two tickets to a concert and offer them to her and one of her female friends. That shows you are including her friends and counting yourself out of the evening. How could this possibly be a trick to get her back if you are not even there?

Getting the approval of her female friends is important since friends are very important to a woman. They were her support system during the break up and the time immediately after. Many women look to the input of their friends before they are willing to get back together with a woman. Remember, her friends may not like you at all. They heard how upset you made their friend and they don't have the buffer of positive emotions to cloud their judgment. If they think you are messing with your ex, they will let her know and this can destroy even the best laid plans.

One good sign that you have a chance is if she is still calling you. Women can be odd in that she may be calling and arguing with you to gage whether or not you are still interested enough. Remember not to let her make you into her whipping boy but as long as you are still talking you have the chance to sort things out and work at fixing misunderstandings. If she won't even talk to you, your chances of resurrecting the relationship are slim to none.

Women can be very fickle and may react to things in ways you may not expect. You may not understand, but women are very emotionally and mentally driven. They also have long memories and even when things seem to go well, something may happen that triggers a negative memory. Be prepared for this. As you grow closer to reconciling, you may find that she actually seems more upset. This is because she is becoming more emotionally invested in being with you and is risking being hurt again. It can be difficult but if you can work through it you stand an excellent chance of getting an ex girlfriend back.

You may wonder if it is actually possible to get an ex girlfriend back. The simple answer is yes, but you will need to use some of the hints and tips listed above to do so.

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Amy Wells has a B.A. in Cinema from San Francisco State University. A former English Teacher, she writes and reports on a variety of consumer issues and trends.

Two of her interests are rubber stamping, and paintball, and she writes a variety of articles on both and has a comprehensive rubber stamp crafting website, and also a paintball website. Visit here site at http://www.gettingthemback.info

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